Get Surreal

So sometimes I like to be alone and wander off . Tonight was one of those nights I ended up at Surreal Effects which is this real pretty art gallery with some real nice photos displayed ,which I didn't photo as that'd kinda be like stealing. So here are some photos of me on the sim- enjoy :

go there look at the art have fun !!!!

All of Me

Here's a short list of songs that makes me think of Saedi and how I feel about her:

all of me by John Legend- it really is a song that is us. we care so much about each other flaws and all. how devoted we are to each other.

no one by Alicia Keys - this song is uplifting and fun and the message that nothing will stop us from being together is a theme that we have dealt with in our relationship .

Gorilla by Bruno Mars ......um yea cause sex stuffs

wicked game by James Vincent McMorrow - A slow deep song about falling in love and how powerfully it effect you heart and soul ...plus Saedi pointed it out to me as a song that made her think of us.

when I see you smile by Bad English - I love when she smiles and giggles and looks happy makes me feel amazing. this song is basically about how the love of someone can get u through the worse of times. Saedi has gotten me through many sad times.

 Here's the first list. Yeah, I know it's short, but most likely there will be a 2nd list at some point . Enjoy the tunes!

Voodoo Running From My Magic....

I don't do as much hunting as my love does, but I did grab some stuff  from the Voodoo hunt recently. I grabbed this shirt from my friend Myia's store, Cutebomb and thought I'd share it with anyone looking here. I do hope to become the hunter Saedi is but she's been doing it a lot more often then I have. So when you can, check out the Voodoo hunt for lots of great stuff for 1L.

Our Wedding: Engagement Pictures

Saedi's Closet- Engagement Pictures

Today is the day where I take T-Bone and mine's engagement pictures. They will be used on our wedding invites but I just had to show what I'll be wearing for them. I had been having my eye on this dress made by Zaara for a long time, ever since I saw my friend Ryder wearing it. It comes in multiple prints so whatever mood you are in, this dress won't fail to help you along with it. The only downside is that it's no longer in the store...so you will have to look on MP for this one. Also it doesn't come by itself, it comes in a big pack. So if you are willing to dish over the lindens for this, then this is totally a worthwhile purchase!

Saedi is wearing: 

Hair: Maitreya Zoe- Ebony

Dress: Zaara Aamani Wrap Dress- print-roses

Shoes: [Gos] Boutique - Paris Peeptoe - White Satin

Jewelry: Minnie's Filigre Red Necklace and Bracelet

We Are Us- T-Bone's View

I think back about the time I've been with Saedi and it's been great. I've learned so much about myself and who I want to be because of her. One of the things that sticks out in my mind is how often in life when you aren't looking for something is when you find it. The first night we met, I wasn't looking to meet anyone in fact, I had broken up with someone cause I was pining for an ex. Though I figured out that wasn't gonna work out I was like "Ok, im good with the single life." Then there she was ...the prettiest neko I'd ever seen tp'ed into my house and I was struck at first by her looks, then her alluring personality and wonderful sense of humor and whimsy. Some how I resisted her for a while: though my body was aching, I didn't want to make mistakes I had in the past.

As we slowly got to know each other I think we both knew where it was heading. We had captured each others minds and heart. We missed and craved each other when we weren't together and happy and giddy like school kids when we where together. I found in her things I hadn't found in anyone else in SL. She made me feel ok with myself. She accepted me with all my flaws and I accepted her for who she was and who she is.

Real life saw us part ways for 3 months. It was one of the hardest moments I've ever had when I had to tell her. I told her I was leaving and I could feel her heart break. I felt my own break that day. For many days after, I hurt. I had to push it away. I couldn't think of the happiness and the plans and everything that was us. I was so sorry for what I did  and to this day it still lingers in my mind and heart .

Today, we are back together and we are stronger then ever. On Feb 13th I asked her to marry me and she said yes. On April 11th we will become us forever.

I couldn't be happier

How Our Story Began- Saedi's View

There are so many times that T and I reminiscence about when we first started dating. We both were single; I had nobody except a few people I would hang out with here and there and T-Bone had just broken up with a girl he was with for a while. I was minding my own business one evening when my bestieface, Kilolo tp'ed me to where she was. She was hanging out at T-Bone's house and so that's where I found myself. We had fun hanging out and dancing around with their friends and then I had to go away to RL, when I came back however...I found myself by myself in T's house. Me being a flirty kitty by nature had no problem with that.

We talked and chatted and somehow I fell in T-Bone's pool (He still laughs at me because of that) The sexual tension was raw and definitely apparent. But being the gentleman he was, T decided not to have sex with me then because he wanted to see where our relationship would go. I did too...but Lord, he was sexy so it was hard to resist him. We finished our night with a dance and I went to bed smiling from ear to ear with a deep satisfied purr.

The next few weeks we started going on dates together, dancing at ballrooms and clubs and just getting to know each other better. I could feel myself getting closer and closer to him, but still there was no sexual contact.

But one night after I was depressed in RL, T-Bone comforted me and one thing lead to another... It was as if he was meant just for me. Physically and emotionally.

Life after that was heaven...I finally found that one man who wanted me for me and though of me as nothing short of amazing. We would hang out all the time and cuddle and hug and everything. We would talk about serious things like marriage and children and even though T wasn't too fond on us being married right away, we still pushed on with our relationship.

Then our lives changed greatly when I found out that I was pregnant. Well, actually T knew before I did...and he was right. My pregnancy didn't change what romance and love we had for each other, but RL was starting to give us some difficulties. We went with the flow, hoping that things would be fine.

During my pregnancy, T-Bone surprised me by proposing marriage to me on my RL birthday, July 17th. I said yes immediately and was so happy to even think about this man being my husband in my second life.

After we had our baby boy Jacob, sadly T had to leave for a break in RL. We separated but we didn't forget about each other. I also left SL for a break to get my RL straight. 3 long months later I came back and soon he did too and after being away for so long, we knew that we couldn't be on SL without each other. T came back to me and then the day before Valentines Day, asked me to be his wife again. I said yes just as fast as the other time and fast forward to now...where we are planning on getting married on April 11.

Our relationship is just as full of love and just as full of passion as before. It's almost been a year that we've been together...but it's felt like so much more and that's how I know that this is my husband and my soulmate...I don't want anybody else.

Sleep in Black and gold

    What up y'all ? So here's the the thing... If I made a list of everything I love, in the top 5 would be football. not just any football- though I will watch any NFL game, my team is the Steelers I live and die with my team. I bleed black and gold so I might as well sleep in it too, right? Here I'm rocking my new Steelers pj's . I picked these up at Red Dog gear . A moment about Red Dog... I been buying sports stuff from there for a while. I hope they make mesh jerseys soon that would be great.

    So when Saedi and I decided to do this blog, it wasn't meant as just a hair blog, but here I am with new hair (and hat) from Truth . It's great! The hat comes with a hud with I don't know... like 10 textures you can pick from. Some are just solid colors, others are designs like the camo I'm rocking in the pic.

Also wearing :

birth li shape
christopher shape by unique
Eleven pirate tat
hw unisex mesh plugs

Spoils of the Hunt- For the Love of Boobies

When I hunt...sometimes I do the whole hunt or I just find a few things I would be interested in. Because it just seems a waste to me to get things that I know I won't ever wear. In this case...I found this gem among the hunt For the Love of Boobies. It's a hunt made for those who are fond of wearing breast enhancers such as Lolas or Tangos. I'm not a fan of either...but I still like to wear the outfits. I love the Minnie Mouse vibe of this and of course if you are a Disney fan...you will love the mouse ears that come with it.

For the Love of Boobies Hunt will be continuing until March 31. To check out the hints and see more about other hints, go here

Saedi is wearing:

Hair: ^;^CaTwA^;^ Mesh Eleanora V2 HairStyle/Black-White
Collar: c( TC ) Ink's Neko Collar of Doom
Lingerie: .::FLG::. Minnie Dirty
Shoes: .: SMC :. Dorothy Pumps

Pose: <K&S> Pole Dancer

New Hair

So I've been trying to find a new hair that I like. I'm very picky when it comes to hair but I finally found one that i wanted :*Drot*-[Midnight]-Jeremy2 from Drot. I like that it falls down over my face. I see a lot of guy hair that leaves u with a lot of forehead so I tried to steer clear of there. It's kind of a punk look but not too crazy.

Travels in Love: Lover's Delight

On a rare occasion, T and I decide to go on dates. Yes...actual dates! Like with dinner and dancing and all that because while staying at home with Jacob is comforting, it's nice to get out and travel to new places for romanticizing the husband to be. I decided to take him to Lovers Delight; a nice woodland area dedicated for lovers and those wanting romance.

We quickly made it to our table; located in a quaint little tree house with a beautiful view of the ocean and a waterfall. How the rose petals didn't manage to blow away is anybody's guess. But nonetheless it was lovely. We sat down and talked about our days in world and out. My baby got him a new hair cut and I lubs. I got a new outfit and he lubbed too.

For dinner I had Caesar salad and a meal consisting of pork chops, green beans and potatoes while T-Bone had potato skins for a appetizer and a chicken dinner. Yum!

See him playing footsie with me under the table? That naughty man...

While we ate we took a good look at the sights around us. Beautiful is a good word for it but I'm sure there are other that can do it better justice.

After dinner, we finished up the date with a bit of cuddling and dancing. Yes, I think we'll be going on these date more often....